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Its Valentines and most people are all over social media posting and showing their perfectly imperfect relationships. Yes perfectly imperfect. Lets agree  -  life is flawed and flaws are beautiful. Hence perfectly imperfect.


While most of the videos and posts are going to be about how you can make your day the best with your partner.. I am here with those who are feeling low, sad or disconnected with this day – the so called “day” of love.

It absolutely fine to not have a romantic partner - could be due to a recent break up, may be you haven’t found your ideal partner or trust in people seems so difficult.

There is some good news. There is no need to run away from your browsing just for the sake of ignoring the lovey dovey red coloured posts. Instead, embrace it cuz a day for you will also come where in you would feel to do such things for your significant other.

However, for now, why run away, let that significant other be you  - the more you can sow love for yourself, the more love you ll reap around you.

Let this day be about those who are present in your life  - a friend, parent, sibling.
Let this day be a day of gratitude for addressing those who have actually been there for you in your lows.
This day is as beautiful as any day. If you don’t feel like labeling it as a valentines day, let it become reason of celebrating anything that you have in your life already.

Pampering yourself by spending is the old lost idea. I want you guys to make it a day of healthy thoughts, care and altruistic love.

So don’t wait, get on calling those you have been missing from some time. Get on a thing you have been avoiding/or been pressed by time - cooking a meal for your family. How about a hand written note for your friend.  Don’t wait for life to surprise you  - be the surprise you want to feel.

Don’t forget to like, comment and share this video with your loved ones.


Youtube link for video :
https://youtu.be/TgCxAZDEFdo

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