When Trust Becomes a Concern Betrayal of any sort as well as not getting along with some people can create trust issues for many. A thinking error developed in this process could lead to believing that giving 100% in any relationship could make one lose that very relation. Although it’s a given fact that with the passage of time, things change, people change and every situation demands a different role from a person. However, when a person develops concerns in trusting others, it means he or she is still being a victim of the past. And being a victim can make a person react emotionally and impulsively leading to destructive decisions. Giving one’s best always or giving too much can leave people in a confused state, feeling guilty or regretful. The boundary gets crossed without realizing that they themselves gave that space to others in the first place. This leaves very little capacity for a person to determine their own actions and ends up blaming others for not go
I am a counselling psychologist with an experience from mental health sector to corporates. My passion for psychology and poetry is quite well-engrained. I love writing, from objectivity to subjectivity and vice-versa. I strongly believe that life is too short to judge rather live it with expression and rejoice it for one day time will stop valuing your own being if you underestimate its power.