How often do you keep
drifting away from your own people because there’s this one person who rules your
entire system.
How often do
you get walked on by people who don’t really matter? How often their opinions
start to collect and play on you.
How often do
you start to lose friends when they say that ‘you are not same anymore or how
many times do you want us to call you or be after you to be a part of
something.’
So, you might
as well just accept that you are the cause, you are the pain and you are the
suffering for others’ discomfort.
But, the reality
is very different from what you assume & follow. The reality is just what it
reflects in the image above. You really want people to find the lost soul in you,
you want that care to be able to overcome that, that holds you back. Your
behaviour speaks differently and that is the evidence, the cue that you give to
yourself consciously and to others subconsciously. So, the external support
that you want starts to dim away in time. The only helping hand that remains
then is your internal system. Yes, If you do not segregate your internal
dialogue with the healing capacity your internal system holds, then you are in
a soup.
Life certainly
cannot be only roses and blooms, it’s a blend of bitter sweet moments. How you let
any experience impact you determines its depth. Similarly, you
would have some events that could keep you away from mingling, trusting,
holding, losing anything and everything that either you desire or want to shun
away. But the question is. ‘Can you really trust the outside world to be there
for you in any given time, when needed. What do you think the answer is? No…
Well its Yes as well as No. Instant gratification for anything isn’t guaranteed
and even if you experience it and feel satisfied, it isn’t guaranteed for it to
be a part for a lifetime. The gloomy feeling we all go through in times of despair,
mistrust, misunderstanding, loss and suffering is evident and sometimes our
closest people might not recognize the pain (due to their own occupied lives)
but that doesn’t mean that you hold yourself back from expressing, just in an
assumption that they don’t care or are not interested. People do need you just
like you need them. Only because, in anticipation you keep away at times, you
might just start believing that they also want to keep away from you. This is
the main cause for diminished relationships these days.
If you really
want to be found in life, in your relationships; you need to value your inner being
– that, my dear is the key to be found, even in places full of voices. Everything
you say and do will carry an underlying meaning. When you start losing yourself
is when you lose those around you. Nourishing your inner being gives you the
power to recognize that underlying concept of your actions. That is when you start
to hear your own voice. That is what I call victory. Recall any incidence in
life where you made a choice, committed an action, spoke out your heart and
realized how it energized you. That is what it means to value your inner being.
Losing your happy soul in order to make other people happy, thus questioning yourself
day in and day out about why you did what you did is only emptying you from
within. If helping is a part of your nature, then it shouldn’t give you a
feeling of being disappeared and if that is the feeling you get, then you need
to figure out if what you are doing for others is helping or something else.
To be found by
others in time of need is great, but to be found by oneself always is a strength.
Find yourself, value your inner being, replace that inner dialogue of self-sabotage
and blame to your inner healing power. Once you figure out the power of it,
nothing can shake your self-esteem and self-worth in your own eyes & that is
what matters at the end of the day.
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