Have you ever said ‘Don’t worry everything will be fine’ to someone you care about? Do you say that often to the people who you feel bad for when they go through pain, confusion, accusation? Then you are not helping them. This won’t make them fine. This won’t make them feel any better. They need someone to share their concern with. Did you just tell yourself that you do listen to their story? Then you are not helping them. This won’t make them fine. This won’t make them feel any better. They need someone to understand what they are going through? Did you just tell yourself; you try to understand? Look, it’s defined that when someone is going through an emotional turmoil they are not in state or even expectation to believe that someone would even get them the way they feel. Its easy to hear someone cry out, it’s easy to tell them to have faith, its easy to say let go. For whom? Its easy for us. We are pacifying them but we can’t feel their feelings. Is that ...
I am a counselling psychologist with an experience from mental health sector to corporates. My passion for psychology and poetry is quite well-engrained. I love writing, from objectivity to subjectivity and vice-versa. I strongly believe that life is too short to judge rather live it with expression and rejoice it for one day time will stop valuing your own being if you underestimate its power.